A detective left a card at my door. Do I have to call back?

No. A card under your door is an invitation, not an order.

A detective can ask you to call. You are not required to. A number written on a card carries no more force than a number written on a napkin.

Understand What the Card Actually Means

Someone wants a statement from you — and would rather have it before you have had time to think.

Detectives in Nashville and across Middle Tennessee leave cards for all sorts of reasons. You may be a witness. You may be a suspect. You may be the person they intend to charge by the end of the week. The card will not tell you which, and asking over the phone rarely produces a straight answer.

Until you know otherwise, assume the conversation is not casual.

Write Down What You Remember Today

Do it now, while it is intact. Dates, times, who was there, what you actually did.

Memory does not sit still. What you "know" three weeks from now will have quietly rearranged itself — and an honest person who gets a small detail wrong looks exactly like a dishonest one. A private, dated account written for your own lawyer is worth far more than a confident answer given at your kitchen door.

Say Nothing Until Someone Is Speaking for You

Not "nothing incriminating." Nothing.

People rarely talk their way out. They talk their way further in — by guessing at a date, by minimizing, by explaining something nobody had asked about yet. No defense lawyer has ever been glad to hear that you cleared it up real quick on your own.

If a detective comes to the door in person, you can say you are not going to answer questions and that your lawyer will be in touch. Say it politely and stop there.

Let a Lawyer Return the Call

The part people miss: not calling back is not the same as ignoring it.

A Tennessee lawyer can make that call for you, find out what this is really about, and often learn where the investigation stands. Your lawyer can set terms — or say there will be no interview at all. You keep the option to cooperate later. You cannot un-say something you said on a Tuesday night.

Expect the Silence to Cost You Something

Declining an interview does not make an investigation go away. It may go forward without your side of it. Officers may come back, talk to people you know, or take what they have to a judge.

That is the honest trade. The risk of talking is usually larger than the risk of staying quiet — but usually is not always, and which one you are in is a question for a lawyer who knows the facts, not for a card on your door.

About the Author

David G. Ridings is a Nashville criminal defense attorney, former police officer, and former prosecutor with nearly 40 years of experience in the Tennessee justice system. Known as “DrJudge,” he educates hundreds of thousands about their rights during police encounters.

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